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Are you ready to release the weight of old wounds and step into a version of yourself that transforms your relationships with others?

Become free from self-imposed limitations, stop acting from the pain body and nurture the inner-child.

HEAL with May

So that you can create deep and meaningful relationships with the people that are important to you and feel loved, adored and valued while stepping into your full potential and reaching your goals in work- and private life.

Click the link below to be the first notified when we open up the doors to the program.

HEAL with May is the powerful transformational training that everyone is talking about.
IF YOU want to get unstuck, transform your relationships with family, colleagues and your romantic partner and reach new heights in career and life
WE have the training, expertise and support to make it happen - a lot quicker and easier than you ever might think.

WHAT IF you could open new opportunities in your life simply by changing the way you see yourself — and the world around you?
 

Imagine waking up one morning and realising there’s nothing holding you back. No invisible ceiling on what you can have. No self-doubt slowing you down. Just a clear, unstoppable path to the career, relationships, and life you’ve always envisioned.
 

You feel at ease in your own skin, deeply aligned with what matters to you. You’re moving with certainty toward the future you want — because you know it will give you the love, purpose, and fulfilment you desire.

And as you take each step, the connections, opportunities, and experiences you’ve been longing for begin to unfold right in front of you.

 

But if you’re honest… that’s not where you are right now.
 

Between the life you dream of and the life you’re living is a constant tug-of-war — a roller coaster of feelings, fears, and second-guessing.
 

You don’t understand why your romantic connection feels flat or distant — why he doesn’t engage in deepening the bond the way you long for.

You don’t know why that one colleague continues to make your work life so tense and exhausting.

You catch yourself re-reading messages, analysing every conversation that has been, looking for hidden signs that they actually care.

 

And somewhere along the way, you’ve learned to put your own feelings and needs aside — to keep the peace, to keep everyone else comfortable, to avoid the sting of disapproval or the fear of being left behind.
 

So you’ve been over-giving, over-doing, and over-functioning — believing you have to earn love, affection, and acknowledgement. Meanwhile, the quiet resentment grows, because deep down you know you’ve been neglecting yourself just to stay in connection.
 

Right now, you might be frustrated, exhausted, and unsure of what to do next.

That’s where the transformation begins.

This is your moment to release the weight of old pain, dismantle the patterns that have been running your relationships, and step into a way of living — and loving — that feels wholehearted and truly right for you.

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The words we speak can either bring people closer to us -or push them further away.

Perhaps you're acting in a way that feels unnatural or forced to you in the relationship with your parents, friend or date. This can be a signal that you're acting from your pain body. It's a way of interacting you've taught yourself in order to keep yourself from getting hurt (again).

Acting unbothered while you actually
 care, acting cold and distant and playing hard-to get are a few coping mechanisms that can develop after having an painful experience in the interaction with others. It's a way in which we, often unconsciously, try to protect ourselves. Unfortunately more often that not it creates the exact situation we feared all along.

Maybe you feel
 frustrated, overwhelmed and exhausted from trying to make things happen in your life  -with nothing to show for it. Perhaps you have been doing every-thing at your job and in your household thinking that it would give you the promotion, raise, affection and devotion that you want in return -and now that it's not happening you feel hopeless.


Knowing how to e
xpress your feelings, wants and needs in a way that connects with others will create new possibilities and it will allow you to step into your full potential.

Once you identify the barriers that have been holding you back in order to bring them up and clear them you will experience a shift in your life. It will enable you to transform your relationships and create deep, profound connections with people who support your goals and dreams.



 

Most women think there’s only one way to create the joy, success, and fulfilment they long for.

By constantly proving how good we are — over-functioning, over-giving, and carrying more than our share — we slip into a never-ending cycle of thinking, analysing, problem-solving, planning, debating, and organising.
 

We become so busy doing that we slowly lose touch with who we truly are — and with the quiet, powerful clarity that comes when we stop doing and start being.
 

It’s an easy trap to fall into… and the moment you understand the real reason behind it, you hold the first key to creating the life you’ve been longing for.

Are you feeling frustrated because your relationships feel like loose sand and it's missing the true, meaningful connection you long for?
 

Have you been putting your feelings and needs aside so that you could stay in connection with others?
 

Have you been giving- and doing in your relationship with others, hoping that some day they would do the same in return?

Are you always the one initiating plans, conversations, and connection — while wondering why the relationship never feels as mutual as you want it to?

If so, I want you to know that you’re in the right place and that what you’re feeling is way more common than you think. 

 

But when you become aware of your ‘pain body’ — the stored emotional pain and old triggers from past experiences — you can recognise it the moment it shows up. And when you do, you can stop those limiting patterns in their tracks… and that’s when amazing things start to happen.

You don’t have to change who you are to create deep, meaningful connections with the people in your life.

Becoming aware of the patterns and beliefs that keep you stuck — and clearing them — isn’t about changing yourself.

 

In fact, it’s the opposite. It’s about removing the barriers that have been dimming your light, so you can step into the fullest, truest version of you… instead of living as a filtered, watered-down version.

When you clear what’s been holding you back, you will:
 

  • Stop over-functioning in a constant effort to prove your worth or earn love.

  • No longer feel drawn to relationships that are cold, inconsistent, or only value you when it’s convenient for them.

  • Attract people who genuinely value you for your true self — and celebrate your uniqueness.

  • Silence the overthinking that keeps you replaying every interaction, wondering what you should have done or said differently.

  • Express your feelings, wants, and needs in a way that lands with others — so you naturally receive support and care, often without even having to ask.

  • Release the limiting beliefs and patterns that have kept you small, quiet, and holding back your presence.

And as you step into this unfiltered version of yourself, you’ll open new doors in life — creating more abundance, success, connection, and purpose than you’ve ever experienced before.

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How are your current barriers holding you back
from living the life you want?

You're chronically over-giving and over-doing at work, in your household and in your relationships with others -and you're feeling exhausted. 

You're keeping score in your mind of how much you've done for the people close to you  -and where they are coming short.

You struggle to express your needs and wants clearly and confidently  -and you end up feeling frustrated, unloved and undesired.

You're acting unbothered while you actually care as a way to influence others' behaviour and to keep yourself from getting hurt (again). 

You've  slightly lost touch with your hopes, dreams and what's right for you because you've become so used to prioritizing the needs of others above your own.

You get overwhelmed with worry and thoughts that are keeping you stuck. You wonder how to create the life you desire when you're already doing so much  -and doing more is not an option.

You put your feelings and needs aside to keep the peace and avoid conflict. In difficult conversations you shut down or stumble on your words. More often than not you end up with emotionally unavailable people.

You miss a sense of purpose and meaning in your job or relationships 
-and
you wish things were different.

These barriers are common for women at all stages in life. And they affect our words, body language and energy when we're out there in the world.

BUT it is possible to transform our lives by becoming aware of what's been holding us back on the path to living the abundant life we secretly long for.

Here are some of the most common barriers.

 


Do you recognise yourself in any of these?
 

  • “I don’t deserve to be happy / have that promotion / see good things coming my way.”
     

  • “I’m just not skinny / pretty / smart enough.”
     

  • “If I can just get this job / relationship / number on the scale, then I’ll finally be happy.” (Only to get there and realise the feeling doesn’t last.)
     

  • “I’ll prove to them that I’m good at this…” (insert job, task, or skill) — my personal recurring trap.
     

  • “Other people just don’t understand the depth of my emotions and feelings.”

  • “I’ll show them how good / decent / kind / funny of a woman I am.”
     

  • “I always attract emotionally unavailable men.”
     

  • “The relationship with my [insert person] has always been like this.”
     

These beliefs aren’t random. You’ve likely learned them growing up — shaped by past experiences, relationships, and moments that left an imprint.

 

Over time, they became the stories you tell yourself about what you deserve and what is possible for you.

But here’s the truth: for every limiting belief, there’s an old story and a pattern keeping it alive. And when you identify and clear that old pain, you start to feel more empowered, confident, and free in your connection with yourself and others — putting a stop to shrinking your presence and playing small once and for all.

Facing barriers on your path to happiness is inevitable. But staying stuck in them is a choice — and it’s one you no longer have to make.

Do you ever catch yourself thinking…
“When does life get any easier?”

Most of us are either silently beating ourselves up or endlessly trying to figure out what we’re doing “wrong” — why we can’t seem to have the kind of life, and the kind of relationships, we truly want.

You might be running yourself ragged, pouring time and energy into analysing every interaction, wondering why you keep ending up in the same patterns again and again.

Maybe you’re chasing one dream after another — the next relationship, the next job, the next milestone — but when you finally get there, the sense of fulfilment you imagined never truly arrives.

It’s exhausting. It’s frustrating. And at times, it’s utterly overwhelming.

Perhaps you blame yourself, even though deep down you know it’s not your fault.

And still, you can’t understand why you get so triggered by something so small — why a single moment can stir up a wave of old hurt, rejection, and memories you wish you could forget. Those moments pull you right back into the pain, and it can feel impossible to climb out.

But there is a way forward. There is a way to stop reliving the same old pain — and start living in a way that feels lighter, calmer, and more aligned with who you really are.

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What if you can turn all of this around

Embody a deep, lasting sense of ease by stepping into your Feminine Energy — knowing, without question, that you don’t have to do anything to feel adored, loved, and desired.
 

Have your own back in every situation — standing your ground with confidence and clarity, without being persuaded or manipulated into choices that don’t feel right for you.
 

Express your feelings, wants, and needs in a way that draws people closer, creating connection instead of conflict, without blame or defensiveness.
 

Heal the wound of abandonment and release the anxiety, doubt, and frustration that comes when someone suddenly turns cold or distant.
 

Clear the weight of old pain and hurtful memories, freeing yourself to see — and step into — new opportunities in every area of life.
 

End the exhausting cycle of over-functioning by tapping into the energy of receiving — and finally allowing others to give, support, and show up for you.

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You’ve probably worked hard for the connections, success, and ease you’ve been craving… and yet, something still feels missing.

Most women I know are doing their best to get out of their heads and find more flow in life. You want more excitement, connection, depth, and romance — but you’re already stretched thin. The thought of doing more to get there feels impossible.

The truth is, you don’t need to add more to your plate.


When you shift your energy from constant doing into fully being, everything changes. Your frequency naturally moves from over-giving into receiving. This state of being not only brings you a sense of calm, acceptance, and wellbeing — it also ripples out to everyone around you. People feel it. They soften. They feel safe with you.

Being energy gives you the clarity to feel what you’re actually feeling, to understand what’s happening inside, and to spot the very patterns that have been keeping you stuck in unfulfilling jobs, one-sided friendships, and unsatisfying relationships.

When you tap into this state, you begin to heal old hurts and unresolved triggers — and without seemingly any effort, you deepen your connections. Others sense that you can hold your own emotions, and in that safety, they open up. They not only connect more deeply with you, but for perhaps the first time, they connect with themselves.

Women who release old pain and step fully into their being energy naturally become magnetic. They draw in connection, affection, respect, and understanding — without chasing, convincing, or performing.

Imagine what our mothers and grandmothers could have created if they’d had access to the tools and little-known psychology of being energy that we have today.

This is how you create profound, loving connections with family, friends, and a romantic partner who tend to your feelings, needs, and wants. This is how you quiet the doubt and anxiety about your value so you can take brave, decisive steps toward the life you truly desire.

Healing looks different for everyone
— but together, we can create results you can actually feel in your life.

You've uncovered and cleared negative patterns holding you back. It has freed up the way for you to step into your full potential and reconnect with your personal purpose and values.

You recognize self-sabotaging patterns early on so you can stop them in their tracks. You're feeling in tune with what is right for you - and know with certainty what isn't.

You are building 
deep and meaningful connections with people that tend to your feelings and support you. 

You transform difficult relationships into an opportunity to deepen the connection in a profound way.

You’ll feel a deep shift in your body: your nervous-system is regulated. You've build unshakable self-worth and emotional resilience. You are naturally confident  
-without even trying.

 You're welcoming new opportunities and see the possibilities ahead of you. You're taking brave steps into the direction you want to go.

You've developed powerful, authentic communication skills and express your feelings and boundaries with confidence and ease. You feel understood in your feelings and met in your desires.

 You are no longer leaking energy to things that aren't supporting your highest good. It will allow you to use more of your time and energy to create the life you want.

When the barriers in your life fall away, you feel unstoppable — empowered, confident, and ready to create the kind of life you’ve always dreamed of.

By identifying and clearing what’s been holding you back, you open the door to deep, lasting connections with the people you love most.

They’ll feel it — in the words you speak, the way you carry yourself, and the energy you radiate. Your authentic self will shine through, and that kind of presence draws people closer in ways you never had to force.

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But here’s the real problem:

How do you know what actually works?
Whose advice can you trust?

Most women spend hundreds of dollars on self-help books, online courses, and “expert” tips that simply don't work for them.

The truth is, most people teach what worked for them. But their story isn’t your story — and what transformed their life won’t automatically transform yours.

We each carry our own history: the relationships that shaped us, the values we hold, the way we define safety and emotional connection. Your patterns, challenges, and triggers might be completely different from the next woman’s.

 

That’s why following one-size-fits-all, cookie-cutter advice so often leads to frustration, disappointment, and feeling like you’re the problem — when you’re not.

Woman at the Beach

"I'm so glad that I met May at an event with other women. It was at a really difficult time in my life. Her program is truly fantastic and has helped me in more ways than I can explain."

Gemma B.

 

 

HEAL

Your step-by-step path to emotional freedom, deeper connection, and a life that feels fully yours.
 

In just weeks, you’ll learn how to break the patterns that have been holding you back, calm your mind, and express yourself with confidence — in relationships, at work, and with yourself.

With science-backed tools, clear communication frameworks, and guided exercises to align you with your true values, HEAL isn’t just about feeling better — it’s about creating lasting change you can see and feel every day.

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